Saturday, July 25, 2009

Conservatism in Question

Conservatism in Question


She's a Conservative
What is conservatism's place in the theatre? How do we relate to it? How do we deal with it? And if conservatism exists in the audience, must we talk to them?
These questions and more are occupying a lot blogular real estate this week, mainly as a result of one entry on the Impending Theatrical Blogging Event blog (which we've addressed with the help of the comments here).
Laura Axelrod got pulled in by the geographically political undertow of the ongoing debate at the ITBE and responded on her Gasp! blog:
I’m not sure what Red State Theater is, exactly. Personally, I’d like to have the biggest audience possible for my work, without compromising my vision. Shouting that Democrats or Republicans suck is going to defeat my purpose. Unless, that is my purpose. KnowwhatImean?
In the comments, she and Nick from Rat Sass discuss the possibility that conservatives are filling the houses at Broadway shows, which seems extraordinarily likely, especially in the case of the so-called jukebox musicals which are so "conservative" in content that they don't even bother with new music, much less new thought.
You can follow the thread from there to Adam Szymkowicz, who's trying to figure out why there's not more "conservative" theatre.
In some ways conservative theatre is an oxymoron ... which is not to say it doesn't exist, just that the word conservative doesn't go with the idea of theatre.
Jump from there to Frank's Wild Lunch, where Kyle dissects other ways that conservatism manifests itself in theatre.
... theater artists pander to audiences in all kinds of ways, either by cloaking their racy subversive ideas in more palatable forms, or by omitting them for fear they won't be accepted.
A nice follow-up to the whole thing, especially if you've been following the ongoing conflict between Scott Walters of Theatre Ideas and, well, a lot of other people (especially Joshua James down below), is Scott's posting of an email exchange with Isaac of Parabasis, who was involved at the ITBE. Here's an excerpt.
I think challenge is absolutely necessary for a community to grow. Theatre shouldn't exist simply to deepen social bonds by reinforcing already-agreed-upon ideas. Although such deepening DOES serve an important purpose, and is part of what a theatre should do.

Thoughts?

Comments (2)


Conservatism is nothing more than an idea, right?
So if your post is, what's IDEA'S place in theatre, I'd say it's vitally important, right?
Because, along with emotion and experience, IDEAS are a prime ingredient to great theatre.
If you ask, what is the VALUE of conservatisim as an IDEA . . . then you're going to get different answers dependent upon who you're asking.
My postion was, conservatism isn't the only idea, nor is it one that has value, as far as I'm concerned, though I'd never tell anyone they shouldn't explore it for themselves.
That's the thing about ideas . . . you put them up for examination and they either fly or they don't, sometimes both at once . . .
So I'd say conservatism has a place as an idea to be examined . . .
Now, as a rule or guideline to be followed, conservatisim isn't something I'd recommend . . . why censor ourselves to only one idea . . .
I'm just musing on your question, Matthew, throwing things out there.

I always get a bad taste in my mouth when I see women, who are 53 per cent of the population, called a "minority". Ah well. Nice to see they're being unmarginalised through a variant on the wet t-short competition. How nice for us.
Conservative is a tricky word these days. Think about its etymological relationship to the word "conservation".

Monday, July 6, 2009

Feminists Misconceptions of Gor and Gorean lifestyle



Feminists Misconceptions of Gor and Gorean lifestyle


As most of you know, there is some controversy over John Norman's Chronicles of Gor series, but is it deserved? The most common accusation we hear is that John Norman is a misogynist who advocates the subjugation, physical abuse, enslavement, and rape of women. Another common complaint is that John Norman's books are poorly written trash with no literary merit whatsoever. As the title of this essay suggests, I believe these unfavorable characterizations are due to misconceptions about John Norman, his purpose in writing the Gorean saga, and the books themselves.

Let's look at the word misogynist. The most common definition of the word is, "One who hates women."1

Could a man that truly despises women write loving and poetic passages like these?


"Human females are such rich and wonderful creatures. Their sexual life, and feelings, are subtle, complex and deep. How naive is the man who believes that having sex with a woman is so little or brief a thing as to fall within the parameters of a horizontal plane, the simple stimulations of a skin, the results attendant upon a simplistic manual dexterity. How woefully ignorant are the engineers of sexuality. How much to learn have even her artists and poets! Women are so inordinately precious. They are so sensitive, so beautiful, so intelligent and needful. No man has yet counted the dimensions of a woman's love. Who can measure the horizons of her heart? Few things, I suspect, are more real than those which seem most intangible."2

"How subtle and deep was the intelligence of women, I thought. How much they know. How much they can sense. How simple and crude, how naive, sometimes seems the intelligence of men compared to the intelligence of women. What deep and wonderful creatures they are. Who can truly understand the emotional depths and needs, eons old, of these flowers of nature and evolution? How natural, then, it is, that the truly loving man will concern himself not with her distortions and perversions, ultimately barren, but with her emotional and sensuous truths, ancient and deep within her, with what might be called her biological and natural fulfillment."3

It seems to me that those who accuse John Norman of misogyny have either never read the Gor books or have given them only the most cursory examination.

What about the claims that John Norman advocates the subjugation, physical abuse, enslavement, and rape of women? Perhaps the following quote will help dispel those misconceptions.

"The fact, of course, that rape is a common sexual fantasy of women does not indicate that women, in any general sense, wish to be raped. They would surely, at the very least, wish to choose the time and the place, and the circumstances and the man. Rape, as a sociological reality, is commonly an ugly, brutal, unpleasant, sickening, horrifying, vicious act. It degrades the man and it doesn't do the woman much good either. Not only does she receive little or no pleasure, but the whole affair has no more intrinsic worth or dignity than a mugging. Further, sadly, she is likely to be brutalized and, at the least, intimidated. This is to take advantage of a weaker creature, who cannot adequately, in most cases, defend herself. The rapist, unless there are some extenuating factors, such as severe mental illness, scarcely comes up to scratch for a human being. To pick on a woman, because she is smaller and weaker, is much the same thing as to pick on a child or animal; or, it is much the same thing as a young man striking an old man; or a large, strong man beating a small, weak man; it is just something that it is not worthy to do. It is not that it need be a "sick" thing to do, though doubtless in some cases it is; it is rather that there is just no manhood in it."4

Norman appears to have a pretty low opinion of anyone that would actually, subjugate, abuse, or rape a woman.

So what was Norman's purpose in writing the Gorean saga? I imagine one purpose was to earn a little extra money in order to better support his family or perhaps to see if he could write a heroic fantasy in the tradition of Edgar Rice Burroughs, but the main purpose seems to have been providing a satirical counterpoint to the more extreme rhetoric of radical feminists.

Those of you who grew up in the 60's, 70's & 80's will no doubt be familiar with the following extraordinary statements:

"Since marriage constitutes slavery for women, it is clear that the Women's Movement must concentrate on attacking this institution. Freedom for women cannot be won without the abolition of marriage."5

"Rape is the primary heterosexual model for sexual relating. Rape is the primary emblem of romantic love. Rape is the means by which a woman is initiated into her womanhood as it is defined by men."6

"We name orgasm as the epistemological mark of the sexual, and we therefore criticise it too as oppressive to women."7

It was comments like these that Norman sought to lampoon. The radical feminists equated romantic love and marriage with slavery, so the only romantic relationships Norman explores in detail in the books are, of course, with slaves. The most extreme feminists categorize all sex as rape, so Norman repeatedly has eager and willing slaves beg their masters for "slave rape". Lastly, female orgasm is claimed to be "oppressive to women", so the "oppressed" slave is described as having the most immediate and powerful sexual and orgasmic responses. Clearly Norman is using slavery as a metaphor in order to explore the absurdity of radical feminist dogma.

Norman is hardly the only author to use a distasteful metaphor to explore more deeply into the human psyche. Nancy Springer invariably castrates at least one male character in nearly every book she writes, but are there hordes of people claiming that Ms. Springer is "advocating" the castration of men? Of course not, most people understand that she uses castration to explore the nature of manhood. Was there a huge outcry against Sheri S. Tepper for "advocating" eugenics in her book, The Gate to Women's Country? Or for portraying men as naturally disposed towards violence and war? No - it's obvious to people that Tepper is exploring the ethical and emotional consequences of selective breeding and secrecy. It's a shame that Mr. Norman isn't accorded the same understanding.

Most of you know that John Norman has a PhD. in philosophy, but what is less well known is that he also has a graduate degree in classical history. Norman puts all of his education to work in his novels. He borrows from classical history not only to build the various cultures found on Gor, but also in various allusions to classical mythology. A few more obvious examples are Norman's reference to Beowulf8, the Ring of Gyges9, and to the Gordian Knot10 & Alexander11 (both directly and obliquely).

And, of course, Norman also uses his degree in philosophy to good effect - regularly exploring such concepts as honor, courage, duty, being true to oneself, and love - especially true love - which Mr. Norman recommends highly.

"Many people, of course, fear love, doubtlessly rightly, for love is a vast, tender, profound, binding instinct, which makes great differences in those lives it floods. The human being is both a single organism and a double organism. The human being consists either of a man or a woman, or the two in love. It is natural for the single organism in each of us to fight for its independence, its freedom to be self-seeking and selfish, and self-striving. But it is natural, too, for the single organism to desire its completion in the mated pair. The matter can be argued subtly but those who have been touched by love, usually briefly, have no doubt as to its superiority. Love, once tasted, is in no danger of ever again being regarded as inferior to egotism. Those who have tried both, and we have all tried the latter, would, were it possible, choose the former."12

There will always be those that refuse to see the truth about John Norman and his books, but as Norman says:

"Truth is a strange thing.
There is a danger in seeking it, for one might find it.
That one does not like a truth does not make it false.
How few people understand that!
But there are many sorts of truths, as there are flowers and beasts. Some truths are hard and cold, and sharp, and if one touches them one might cut oneself and bleed. Some truths are like dark stones which do little more that exist unnoticed; others are green with the glow of life, like moist grass rustling in the morning sun/ some truths are like frowns; and some are like smiles. Some are friendly; others are hostile; and, in both cases, their nature is just what it is, not what they may be said to be. Politics is not the arbiter of truth; it may be the arbiter of comfort, safety, conformity, and success, but it is not the arbiter of truth; the arbiter of truth is the world and nature; they have the last say in these matters.
Many may wish it were not the case; and many will pretend it is not the case; but it is, for better or for worse, the case.
Truth does not care whether it is believed or not; similarly, stone walls and cliffs do not care whether they are noted or not; so then let us leave it to the individual to do as he thinks best. Truth, the stone wall, the cliff, are not enemies; but they are real."13

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Copyright © 2007 LemuelB. All rights reserved.



1 The American Heritage® Dictionary of the English Language, Fourth Edition; Published by Houghton Mifflin Company. All rights reserved, © 2006 by Houghton Mifflin Company
2 Blood Brothers of Gor © 1982 by John Norman, DAW Books, Inc. - pages 181-182
3 IBID - page 286
4 Imaginative Sex © 1974 by John Norman, DAW Books, Inc. - pages 52-53
5 Sheila Cronan, in Radical Feminism - "Marriage" (1970), Koedt, Levine, and Rapone, eds., HarperCollins, 1973 - page 219
6 Andrea Dworkin, Letters From a War Zone, Dutton Publishing, 1989
7 Judith Levine commenting on a document from Women Against Sex: A Southern Women's Writing Collective - Sex Resistance in Heterosexual Arrangements, 1987
8 Marauders of Gor © 1975 by John Norman, DAW Books, Inc. - pages 281-282
9 Explorers of Gor © 1979 by John Norman, DAW Books, Inc. - page 29
10 Assassin of Gor © 1970 by John Norman, DAW Books, Inc. - page 55
11 Magicians of Gor © 1988 by John Norman, DAW Books, Inc. - page 64
12 Imaginative Sex © 1974 by John Norman, DAW Books, Inc. - page 16
13 Witness of Gor © 2001 by John Norman, New World Publishers - page 586

Saturday, July 4, 2009

Meeting my Sir

First off I want to point out that this tale of extreme happiness is brought to you under the orders of my Sir... which may give you a bit of insight into where Kris and I are at this point. This story, though, is mostly about how we got here...
I never intended to fall in love with Kris, he was a hookup.
I was between jobs, still am as a matter of fact, and had way too much spare time on my hands. This lead to me looking for people to talk to during the day since all of my friends were working and were unavailable to entertain/amuse/keep me company. Mostly I used Grindr and Recon since I had no problem with the occasional hookup and I enjoyed kink probably about as much as anyone else reading r/BDSM. I initially encountered Kris on Grindr, we talked and it was nice but I got distracted by something shiny (I do that sometimes) and we lost touch. I encountered him again on Recon but I don't tend to talk to very many people on Recon because the moment you start a conversation with me and call me 'boy' I'm gone (On a side note, why would a stranger call another stranger they've never met 'boy'? It's not like they know me, hell I may not be into any of that... but time and time again, there it is.). I didn't immediately put two and two together until Kris changed his profile on Grindr to 'Shameless Spandex Pervert' which did two things: one, it made me laugh like a gibbon monkey, and two it made me very interested.
I'm not really a spandex guy but I love someone who can be open with their kinks so we can both get off on their kinks. So, while I wasn't HUGE into spandex, I loved to see Kris put on spandex and get all giddy and happy that he was feeding his kink which, in turn, made me get an supernatural fondness for the stuff. But I'm getting ahead of myself.
Kris and I decided to meet up and we hooked up the first night (remember, this was never supposed to be dating). The funny thing about a hookup is that usually you don't stay the night, but I did, usually you don't make out much or compliment each other a lot, but we did, usually you don't cuddle up and when you wake up miraculously discover that you never stopped holding each other, but we did. This wasn't the plan, and Kris was leaving in a few months, but it was nice so we went with it.
Over the course of the next few months Kris and I explored our respective kinks. His fondness (understatement of the year) for spandex rubbed off on me and my fondness for bondage, S/m, and M/s worked it's way under his skin. I'm not a total sub but I prefer to be treated a bit like a pet or sexual object once and a while and Kris did his best to comply. The tough part though was that Kris is an incredibly compassionate human being and lover, it took some doing to get him to understand my need to be occasionally dominated (though he was fine with me dominating him) despite being a top and having the tendencies for sure; he just suppressed them I think. I shared with him much of the porn that I found alluring as sort of a rough guide of what turned me on and he jumped on it. Kris, who had never really acted out on his Dom side, suddenly was learning knots to tie me up, putting spandex hoods on me to blind me, and going to great lengths to drive me sexually wild.
Sometime around then Kris and I realized that we matched each other. Not necessarily kink-wise (but by golly we were getting there) but personality wise, we agreed on practically everything and thought much the same way about things. This man, who was supposed to be just a hook up, had worked his way well past the barriers I usually put between myself and hook-ups and we were both very much in love.
Then came the hard part. You see Kris lives across the country normally and was only in town for a few months... at some point he needed to go home. I was not one for long distance relationships where I could see no end - I'd been there and done that and I wasn't keen on trying it again. So the hardest day of my life came when Kris got on that plane and flew away... we wept.
We kept in touch and I promised to visit him but I had decided to go back to school and so I couldn't simply move out to be with him... could I?
Yes, I could.
After some discussion it was decided that Kris would move here in January after his contracts were up and I would move there until September. With a future and a plan in hand the two of us continued to talk and keep in touch. We talked about what our life together would be like, how awesome it would be when I was there, and how incredible it will be when he comes here and we are finally and permanently together. I've never had these kinds of discussions in my life; I am still amazed at how easy and natural they feel.
I fly to Kris in three days. The last week has involved some serious D/s with Kris dictating that I stay chaste for the week before I arrive and daily assignments of submission to his desires, of which this memoir is one of them. I'm more than happy to follow where Kris points, knowing now that he is getting off on it just as much as I am. Since we are both switches I look forward to turning the tables on him and sharing my own sexual deviousness with him when I arrive (bugger just got there first!).
I am marvellously in love with the man I'm calling Sir - not because he is my Sir but because he is incredible. We are equals and we give and take from our relationship equally. I am proud to own him just as he is proud to own me right back.

very sweet! Glad you two were able to learn and love together (no matter the distance).